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Learning to Set Boundaries That Hold

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  Good morning!   This is part 4 of Tasha Ina Church's "Narcissistic Life Coaching" Course that I'm taking and enjoying on Transformation Academy. Walking through the lessons has been helpful not hurtful! That's why I'm continuing to share them with you. Let's look at the definition psychologytoday.com gives for boundaries and why they are important: Each person must decide where they draw the line between preserving their privacy, at least from those with whom they are not intimate, and letting others in. To maintain those lines, they erect boundaries and work to preserve them. Some individuals are more vigilant, and even aggressive, about their firewalls, which can lead to discomfort, if not conflict, with others. But in general, setting healthy boundaries can be a way of preserving one's mental health and well-being. Boundaries | Psychology Today 1. Let's look at the 4 types of Basic Boundaries in the any relationship: Physical Emotional Time Ma...

Rebuilding Your Self-Trust and Intuition After a Narcissistic Relationship

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 Good morning! This is pat three of Tasha Ina Church's Narcissist Life coaching that I'm taking through Transformation Academy. This is such an important topic and one that opened my eyes to how I got into a relationship over and over with a narcissist. Are you ready? The intro to this topic is: 1. How Narcissistic Abuse Undermines Intuition: Narcissistic  abuse  can  undermine  intuition   by  creating  a  cycle  of  manipulation  and  gaslighting,  leading  to  self-doubt  and  confusion. Gaslighting :  Abusers  often  invalidate  your  perceptions  and  feelings,  making  it  difficult  to  trust  your  own  judgments.  2 Emotional  Manipulation :  The  constant  pressure  to  conform  to  the  abuser's  reality  can  erode  your  self-esteem ...